Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers - Gordon Neufeld, Gabor Maté

Written by Gordon Neufeld, Gabor Maté
Read by Daniel Maté
Format: MP3
Unabridged

Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers

Like countless other parents, doctors Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté have had to confront their children becoming secretive and unreachable. Focused more and more on their friends, they recoiled or grew hostile around adults. Why? The problem, Neufeld suggests, lies in attachment: Children are increasingly forming stronger attachments to their friends than to the adults in their lives. Dr. Neufeld has dubbed this phenomenon “peer orientation”, which refers to the tendency of children and youth to look to their peers for direction: for a sense of right and wrong; for values, identity, and codes of behaviour.

This peer orientation undermines family cohesion, poisons the school atmosphere, and fosters an aggressively hostile and sexualized youth culture. It provides a powerful explanation for school-yard bullying and youth violence; its effects are painfully evident in the context of teenage gangs and criminal activity, in tragedies such as in Littleton, Colorado; Tabor, Alberta; and Victoria, B.C. It is an escalating trend that has never been adequately described or contested until Hold On to Your Kids. Once understood, it becomes self-evident - as do the solutions, none of which are impossible or even costly to undertake.

Hold On to Your Kids will restore parenting to its natural intuitive basis and the parent-child relationship to its rightful preeminence. The concepts, principles, and practical advice contained in Hold On to Your Kids will empower parents to parent and satisfy their children’s inborn need to find direction by turning towards them for their source of authority, contact, and warmth.

Daniel Maté’s warm and sensitive narration, gift with dialogue, and engagement with the authors writing make this an enjoyable and informative listen.

Announce URL:	udp://open.demonii.com:1337/announce
This Torrent also has several backup trackers
Tracker:	udp://open.demonii.com:1337/announce
Tracker:	http://www.torrent-downloads.to:2710/announce
Tracker:	http://www.sumotracker.com/announce
Tracker:	http://pirates.sumotracker.com/announce
Tracker:	http://www.torrentsnipe.info:2701/announce
Tracker:	udp://explodie.org:6969/announce
Tracker:	udp://tracker.opentrackr.org:1337/announce
Tracker:	udp://tracker.tiny-vps.com:6969/announce
Tracker:	udp://tracker.vanitycore.co:6969/announce
Tracker:	http://tracker.baravik.org:6970/announce
Tracker:	http://tracker2.wasabii.com.tw:6969/announce
Tracker:	http://tracker.publicbt.com/announce
Tracker:	udp://tracker.publicbt.com:80/announce
Tracker:	udp://tracker.leechers-paradise.org:6969
Tracker:	udp://tracker.coppersurfer.tk:6969
Tracker:	udp://tracker.desu.sh:6969
Creation Date:	Mon, 20 Jan 2014 08:41:37 -0500
This is a Multifile Torrent
HoldOntoYourKidsUnabridgedPart2_ep6.mp3 190.04 MBs
HoldOntoYourKidsUnabridgedPart1_ep6.mp3 174.4 MBs
readme.txt 1.81 KBs
Combined File Size:	364.45 MBs
Piece Size:	512 KBs
Comment:	Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers Updated by AudioBook Bay
Encoding:	UTF-8
Info Hash:	d0f65983629c4f257278d702a5777961a91ab481
Torrent Download	Torrent Free Downloads
Tips	Sometimes the torrent health info isn’t accurate, so you can download the file and check it out or try the following downloads.
Direct Download	Start Direct Download
Tips	You could try out alternative bittorrent clients.
Secured Download	Download Files Now
Ad